Wednesday, June 1, 2011

The Fine Art of Insincerity by Angela Hunt

Here's something new for me.

I have not yet reviewed a fiction book--until today.

And this takes place in the perfect setting for starting off my summer:  a three day holiday weekend in a beach cottage.

Here is the publisher's description of the story:

The Fine Art of Insincerity features three Southern sisters with ten marriages between them and more looming on the horizon. It takes a "girls only" weekend spent closing up Grandma's treasured beach house for the sisters to really unpack their family baggage, examine their relationship DNA, and discover the true legacy their much-marrying grandmother left behind.

And a bit about Angela Hunt, the author: 
Angela Hunt is the bestselling author of more than 100 books, including The Tale of Three Trees, Don't Bet Against Me, The Note, and The Nativity Story. Her nonfiction book Don't Bet Against Me, written with Deanna Favre, spent several weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. She and her husband make their home in Florida with their dogs. You can learn more at  

So, with the introductions out of the way, my thoughts.

Like the characters in this book, I also have two sisters.  And, I was reading this book over the long holiday weekend in a southern home very similar to the beach home they stayed in for their holiday weekend--complete with porch swing and all.  Setting and characters aside, or included, this story stirred up emotions in me which I thought were dormant or even non-existent.  It had me considering my relationship with my own sisters as well as other family relationships and friendships I hold dear.  

As the title suggests, ultimately these sisters had been insincere with each other and actually with everyone else including they themselves their whole adult lives.  Honestly, I kept mistaking the title of the book to be The Fine Art of Insecurity every time I glanced at the cover.  Truly, that mistaken title is not too far off as well.  Angela Hunt so creatively developed her theme and storyline with these sisters that the reader can sense that the one of the main reasons for each of their insincerity truly is their own insecurity.  

This book is not only a good summer read because of its setting but is also a great wake up to facing the reality of life and relationships before it is too late.  As is clearly portrayed in this book,  we never know how little time we may have left to truly show our love to those who need it most.  

Don't assume that because they are your family or lifelong friend(s) they know you love them.  How have you shown them?  Not how have you said it?  How have your actions and unspoken words proven (or disproven) your love for them?

Trust me, I am preaching right back at myself with this one.  Because of the wake-up call from this delightfully intrusive book, I pray I will make this the Summer of Love Lived Out toward my family and dear friends.

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